isN't IT??

When would you know if this is “it”?

* when you can play with him
* when you can converse with him
* when you can laugh at each other
* when you can have a laugh with each other
* when doing crazy things with him is normal
* when you find yourself smiling just in seeing him before closing your eyes at night and seeing him first as you wake in the morning
* when you discover that he snores at night and it’s okay with you
* and you wouldn’t mind getting used to it
* when he drools while he sleeps and you find it funny
* and you wouldn’t mind him drooling on your hair
* when holding his hand has become part of your sleeping habits
* when just looking at him and do nothing can be your sort of a past time
* when you can get upset with him but later on you will be more upset for being upset with him
* when you can argue with him
* when you can agree with him
* when you can disagree with him
* when you can agree to disagree with him
* when you can comprehend with his indefiniteness
* when you can go unruly for a while and he wouldn’t mind
* when he can go unruly for a while and you wouldn’t mind
* when it seems that every curves of your body were perfectly made for his
* when you love kissing him on all his body parts
* and you’d love him to kiss you back
* when you missed him because you didn’t see him the whole day
* when keeping secrets from him makes you sick
* when you can just tell anything to him
* when you can have the worst time of your life with him
* when you can have your most ordinary life events with him
* when you’d love to have the best time of your life with him
* when everyday seems a special day with him
* when you love the thought of having him with you for the rest of your life

-and- YOU ARE MAKING IT HAPPEN!

-->tie-a-kNot<--

Do not stare—OBSERVE.
Do not listen—COMPREHEND.
Do not talk—CONVERSE.
Do not just understand—be BROAD.
Do not touch—FEEL.
Do not be thoughtful—CARE.
Do not give—SHARE.
Do not be thankful—APPRECIATE.
Do not sympathize—EMPATHIZE.
Do not show pity—be MERCIFUL.
Do not instruct—GUIDE.
Do not be knowledgeable—be WISE.

Being aware of another’s existence is not enough; strive to make your presence be felt. Start to build connection with every individual you come across. Seize the strain that might arise from insensitivity. Live not because you are given life, but because you’re gifted with that grandeur opportunity -and- ability to communicate and bond with other individuals.

[[ stuck ]]

How did I end up in this place?
This situation?
Is this really the life I prefer to lead?
Did I plan for this?
So many questions..
Don't have even a single answer..

Things are out of my hands..
And from now on..
I decide not to make plans anymore..
I’m going to live my life through the present..
I will disregard the future and just reminisce the past..
I will focus on the “now”..
I won’t let my previous decisions affect my current condition..
I choose to live a life without regrets and without inhibitions..
I will not complain and won’t even explain..
I intend to eliminate fear but still remain cautious..
I will laugh at the ugliest humor and be tough for the most downside of my day..

Everyday..
Life amuses me..
Surprises me and I guess..
Changes me as well..
But despite this continuous and consistent transmutation..
I will strive to take a grip on what consists of my psyche..
And though my reasons were altered and my ways were changed..
I will always take hold of my principles..
Be it from the past.. the present.. or the future..
Because these principles are what made me..
Is making me.. and will make me..
ME..

[date created--10/12/08]

[Qeshm, Iran]

..Definition..

== esSeNce oF a reLatioNshiP ==
it is when you decide to live a life with somebody..
regardless of how life decides to treat you..

..choosing to stay..

..to have a lasting relationship..
..it doesn't mean that you must go for the right partner..
..it is doing the right things and deciding to stay..
..come what may..
..and it goes both ways..

+ obstacle +

problem comes out when something exceeds one's capacity to control or at least comprehend.. but since man has the ability to cogitate.. scrutinize through matters.. and adapt to every life's circumstance.. sooner or later.. he will understand.. absorb.. and cope with whatever difficulty he encounters..

..my music..my life..

..finally..

..my music has found me..

..and plays with me the rhythm..

..that soothes my very soul..