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True. Why? It’s because we act differently in front of different people. Why? It’s even because we play different roles to them. To some people we are friends while to others we are rivals. Sometimes we play the role of a listener but with others we have all the floors for talking. For some we are the tough ones but to others we are the weaklings. We sometimes have the widest room for understanding but at some instances we constrict our mind to certain ideas. We may have a single outlook in life or a single principle we believe in but we have to admit that we treat people differently from each other so we appear dissimilar to each and everyone of them.
The following reasons, I think, are to be considered for such tendencies: (1) people have different roles in our life that we just play what we believe are our roles to them in return, (2) we perceive people differently and we just try to deal with them as how we see them, (3) we understand that there are ways people wanted to be treated and we just conform to that.
Basically, we are unaware that we act diversely in some ways. It could be because it’s in our routine. But for some people, they lose grip of their personalities that’s why they end up lost and even worse – torn apart. They lose track of their real purpose and end up being a slave of uncontrollable tendencies instead of navigating their own lives. They keep on conforming to the society they are in and then forgetting their own ideology. That is where they lose their “self”, the sense of having their own identity, judgment, and concept of the life they want to live.
Time really runs fast, as well as the opportunities and events that if we’ll try to ponder about it--- just passed through our senses in a blink. Lots of things happened, some of which we are very much in control of while others just took place regardless of our consent. But at some point, no matter how we tried holding on to something, and even if we drew so much effort just to make things right for us, it just simply wouldn’t.
